Never Judge Anyone Before Knowing the Situation !


Never Judge Anyone Before Knowing the Situation


Doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes & went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor.


On seeing him, the dad yelled:

“Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger? Don’t you have any sense of responsibility?”


The doctor smiled & said:

“I am sorry, I wasn’t in the hospital & I came as fast as I could after receiving the call…… And now, I wish you’d calm down so that I can do my work”


“Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? If your own son dies now what will you do??” said the father angrily


The doctor smiled again & replied: “I will say what Job said in the Holy Book “From dust we came & to dust we return, blessed be the name of God”. Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by God’s grace”


“Giving advises when we’re not concerned is so easy” Murmured the father.


The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy,

“Thank goodness!, your son is saved!” And without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running. “If you have any questions, ask the nurse!!”


“Why is he so arrogant? He couldn’t wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s state” Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.


The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: “His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was at the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery. And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.”

A Change Is As Good As A Rest !

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A change is as good as a rest.

Whether this change is as major as a change of employment or as minor as a leisure pursuit which occupies your entire attention for an hour three
times a week, these changes in routine, and mindset are entirely totally engaging which requires deep concentration so that your mind is free from the
mundane but seemingly important aspects of your day.

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Many executives are becoming involved in the martial arts for just this reason.

If your mind wanders for even a split second, a harsh lesson is soon learned.

Pain is a great motivator and always will be.

Stress Is Not A Bad Thing !

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Contrary to popular opinion, stress is not a bad thing.

It allows us to perform at peak levels and can assist us through the flood of chemicals it releases within our bodies.

What is harmful is too much stress, or more particularly, a lack of relief from stress.

The times of stress must be balanced nicely with times of pure relaxion and leisure for us to be healthy and at our best.

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Many of the great leaders of our time were exposed to crushing workloads and the burdens of high office.

But they prospered by developing strategies to balance the challenging times with fun and calming times.

President Kennedy would have regular naps in his White House office.

Winston Churchill had the same practice and slept for one hour every afternoon to stay alert, focused and calm.

Not only is it essential to be physically relaxed to maintain optimal health but one must couple this trait with mental serenity.

Too often people think that vigorous exercise, good nutrition and pleasant leisure activities will be the panacea for all ills.

These pursuits must be combined with positive thinking and peace of mind for true happiness and longevity.

 

Positive Overcomes The Negative !

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It has been rightly said that “you sow an action, you reap a habit.

You sow a habit, you reap a character.

You sow a character, you reap a destiny.” The essence of a person is his character – make yours unique, unblemished and strong.

Do not say you will do anything unless you will indeed do it.

Speak the truth and measure your words wisely.

Be humble, straightforward and peaceful.

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Remember the overriding law of nature: positive overcomes the negative.

The Nature Of The Mind !

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Just as valuable energy is wasted by spending time on activities that are of no value, energy can be wasted on loose thinking.

Imagine that your mind has an energy measure of 1000 watts at its disposal.

Each time your mind wanders off the project at hand, to a nagging worry, to all the things to do by the end of the day, 100 watts is lost.

Quite soon the entire energy supply is gone.

This is the nature of the mind.

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Fail to discipline it and your energy levels will be depleted and your accomplishments will be minimal.

Control it and you will see great things happening.

You will feel more powerful and achieve difficult tasks with ease.

The 19th century philosopher Henri Frederic Amiel summed it up nicely: “for purposes of action, nothing is more useful than narrowness of thought combined with energy of will.”

When Choosing Your Life Partner Is Most Important Decision Of Your Life !

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Choosing your life partner — the person you want to spend the rest of your days with — is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in your life.

Living most of your life with the person you love can be a joyous, mutually-fulfilling experience, but finding and choosing the right person can be a monumental task.

Luckily, it’s something that most people go through, so you’re not alone people who have never been married and never want to be married amount to only 5% of the total population.

By having a realistic idea of the kind of person that is right for you, making a strong effort to find this person, and committing to your relationship, you too can share the rest of your life with someone you love.

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When choosing your life partner, remember that this is the most important decision of your lifetime.

The marriage relationship offers 90% of all your support, happiness and fulfillment so choose it wisely.

Consider qualities such as affection, sense of humor, intelligence, integrity, maturity, temperament, compatibility and that indescribable characteristic of chemistry.

If these are present, your relationship stands an excellent chance of great success.

Move slowly and let no one press you into an uncomfortable decision.

Keep Walking !

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Cultivate the art of walking half an hour after you have finished eating your evening meal.

Walks in natural settings are the very best.

Walking is, perhaps, nature’s ideal exercise.

And when you walk, do not think about work or about the bills or about the challenges you might be facing – this will neutralize many of the benefits.

Simply enjoy the walk.

Notice the richness of your surroundings.

let your senses drink in the beauty of nature and the crispness of the air for a change.

So many people who have mastered the art of growing younger have also mastered
the habit of a daily walk.

REFRESHED YOUR MIND

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Light a candle beside you when you are reading in the evening.
it is most relaxing and creates a wonderful, smoothing atmosphere.
Make your home an oasis from the frenzied world outside.
Fill it with great music, great books and great friends.
Do focus on what you’re doing.

No matter what will happen just keep on doing
untill you succeed.